A Final Word to the Wise

When we decide to share our news of being diagnosed with breast cancer, we have
the very best intentions in how we relate it to others. And although our intentions
are good, it does not mean that we will always be successful. No matter how long we
have thought it through or how carefully we have selected our words, we still may
not be able to help those around us cope or even understand.
If this is your case, don’t hesitate to ask for professional help. Find a counselor who
specializes in sharing this kind of news with partners or children. They may be more
aware of what a child’s or partner’s need is, how to relate the information so that it
doesn’t terrify or worry them, and even what to expect from them down the road.
Someone in a support group, a physician, or a member of a cancer society may be
able to recommend a counselor with this type of expertise.
You don’t want to suffer any more than you have to, and neither do your loved ones.
This may be the most important ounce of prevention in your cure.